okay recently i have come across so many women calling themselves 5 star CHICKS...... ladies we are not all 5 stars as nicki said lil mama u a 3 star. some of these females i see lately are still searchin for there other 2 stars. Why is it that women go to the club drssed like slores but expect men not to treat you as one. Ladies men are very visual creatures they act upon what they see if you are wearing a little dress and bendin ova lettin everyone see ur ass they are gonna treat u like a hoe cause thats how your actin. A man will only do what you allow him to so STOP COMPLAINING and do something about it. If your relationship isint working leave! And please ladies stop trying to change men! dammmmmmmmmnnnnn he is who tha hell he is stop trynna turn him into the perfect guy there is NO perfect guy. And news flash if sumone doesnt want to change they wont not for you or anyone else they will only change when they see fit. Females can be real wreckless I've seen some women do some cold hearted things and it always seems that them acting that way stems from some past relationship. bringing me to my next point LET THAT SHYT GO!!!! its your past for a reason damn stop dwelling on a nigga that hurt you 5 years ago let go and let live. on another note Im seein way to many young girls grownin up way to fast. SLOW IT DOWN life is already short enough to begin with.
now for all the grown women who dont act there age this is for you... if you fit in to any one of these choices its time to grow up!
1.) live with your parents and still ask them for money
2.) if your jobless but find a way to go shopping 3 or 4 times a month
3.) if you only look a guys way because is car is "pretty"
4.) if the only reason he got your number is because he has dreads
5.) if your having the walk of shame and the guy you just slept with doesnt even know your last name
6.)if your 21 and over and still fightin in the club
7.)if you drink damn near everyday just to get shyt done
8.) if you have no idea who ur babbys daddy is
9.) if your a carrer baby momma a.k.a. a trapper
10.) if you are over 21 and hang with 16 year olds ur friends should not fucking be in high school
11.) if you still blamin everybody else for why your life isint going the way u thimnk it should be
12.) if you meet men and have sex with them within a 24-48 hour period but u cant figure out why no man wants to date you
13.) if your a self proclaimed hoe you call it " doin you" and you lecture your younger sister on not doing the very same things she whatches you do
14.) if your still walking around sayin niggas aint shyt... maybe you just date aint shyt typa niggas because you cant handle a real man
15.) if your not exclusive with the "cookies"
16.)living out of your means...example buying 60 dollar designer boots when you only make 1200 a month
17.) living with a family member and expecting a man to be your sugar daddy
18.) playin dudes for money and gifts
19.)smashin the homies
20.) throwing a fit when you dont get your way
21.) dressin like a slore but getting mad when your treated like one
BABYYY do not pass go do not collect 200 dollars YOU ARE NOT A 5 STAR. In order to be a grown woman you have to handle your b.i.! which means you take care of yourself. You dont need a man but you understand the importance of a strong man in your life and you know how to treat them. A grown woman doesnt play games she knows what she wants and she goes after it. little girls play games women dont. A woman is intelligent and can hold an educated conversation. A grown woman is a role model for younger girls showing them what they should be!
if you are....
1.) in school with a 2.9 or higher
2.) have your own place, working and going to school
3.) being an immaculent example for your daughter
4.) being super mom
5.)on your hustle doing whatever it takes to make your dreams become a reality
6.) a virtuos woman and a shinig example of how a lady walks, talks, and acts
then you are a 5 star
things a five star knows....
1.) how to cater to her man
2.)how to be a lady in public
3.) bein classy
4.)furthuring your education may not be for everyone but it takes a strong determined person to do so and finish!
5.)respect people around you... becareful how you speak to people you may be entertaing an angel unaware
6.) make your money but dont let the money make you
7.) respect yourself
THere are to many little girls running around claiming they are grown when they are totally dependent on someone else for there survival. daddy buying you a care doesnt mean its yours sweetie buy your own. pay your bills on time, have good credit! know how to treat a man with respect now thats a real women
